LUX ADVICE: Romantic Relationships - THE SECRET

LUX ADVICE: Romantic Relationships - THE SECRET

Every relationships has it's ups and downs. Sometimes may mga misunderstandings kayo or things na hindi napagkakasunduan. It's normal naman. There's no such thing as perfect relationship but you can always choose if you want that relationship to be perfect for you.

Love is a choice. Once we love a person we should choose him wholeheartedly and choose him/her again and again and never doubt about the choice we made of choosing him/her. Get my point? You see, maraming mga relasyon ang hindi tumatagal dahil nagkakasawaan na. At first, couples can't get enough of each other. Gusto nilang laging nakikita ang isa't isa. It's like they can't survive a day without seeing their partners. But as weeks, months or years go by, and maybe because of the circumstances and changes, we tend to change as to change is constant and just around the corner. Yung dating hindi mapaghiwalay ay halos wala ng panahon para sa isa't isa. Magsisimula na nilang maramdaman na parang may mali na at parang hindi na sila kagaya noon. 

But the truth is, love never get lost. It may fade but it's still there. Kahit nga sa mga exes natin diba? The secret for a relationship to work out despite the challenges and doubts is to choose to stay and love that person. Never blame him/her for his/her flaws or shortcomings. We, as people have that. We are not perfect. Never blame your partner for anything because for a relationship to work, it takes two people, Not only one. Both of you make mistakes. Think about every good memory with your partner and then, realize, evaluate and know if you are still willing to stay and choose him/her over and over again for the things that he/she have done right.

The secret is choices. Choosing the love of your life. Easy. 

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